Marc Jacob

These days, many couples realize that while their marriage is ending, that doesn’t mean they need to go to war with one another. Through processes like Collaborative Divorce, you and your spouse can retain control of the process, rather than letting a judge make decisions about your family. … [Read more...] about What Are Our Options If We Don’t Want To Go To Court?

Alimony, spousal support, and spousal maintenance are all terms that apply to the financial arrangement between ex-spouses that helps keep the lower-earning spouse financially secure, either for a set period of time or until a major life change warrants termination of the support. In cases where … [Read more...] about We Both Earn A Lot Of Money. Do I Have To Pay Alimony?

New York is at the beginning of a sea change in its legal understanding of parenting, spearheaded in large part by same-sex families who are raising children. The growth of married families with children who have been adopted, conceived through sperm donation or surrogacy, or who were delivered … [Read more...] about Are Child Custody Matters Treated Differently In A Same-Sex Divorce?

Same-sex divorce in New York deals with the same issues that opposite-sex divorce deals with, and has the same requirements as well. So whether you married here or got married in another state before New York allowed it, you must still have been a resident of New York for a year before you can … [Read more...] about Are Gay Divorces Treated Any Differently Than Straight Ones?

For many couples, pets provided a stand-in for children while they built their careers, or when they just preferred to remain child-free. When a marriage dissolves, the status of a beloved dog, cat, or other pet can become contentious if you don’t negotiate thoughtfully with your spouse. One … [Read more...] about How Do We Negotiate Who Gets Our Pets?