Sometimes, a marriage has eroded so much that there’s simply no way to avoid an ugly divorce. The costs of these actions, in terms of money and emotional energy, can be significant, but when your spouse is out to hurt you or soak you financially, it may impossible to do anything but get through … [Read more...] about My Spouse Wants To Hurt Me. How Can I Avoid A Messy, Contested Divorce?
If My Divorce Is Contested, Do I Have To Appear?
Yes, in a contested divorce action, you will have to appear in court, possibly many times. There will also be a number of conferences you’ll be required to attend while the court develops its understanding of the financial condition of the marriage, the possibility that you and your spouse will … [Read more...] about If My Divorce Is Contested, Do I Have To Appear?
Who Owns The 529 Plan We’ve Been Contributing To?
529 college savings plans are qualified tax-preferred savings instruments that many families open to put money away for a child’s education. For couples who remain married, though they are continually contributing to the 529 account, for all intents and purposes the funds held there belong to … [Read more...] about Who Owns The 529 Plan We’ve Been Contributing To?
Do I Have To Pay Child Support Even If Our Child Isn’t Biologically Mine?
Except in very narrow circumstances, New York courts will require that you continue your relationship as a parent to a child you’ve been raising, including the payment of child support if you are not the custodial parent. This policy causes enormous headaches for many men who have raised … [Read more...] about Do I Have To Pay Child Support Even If Our Child Isn’t Biologically Mine?
How Do I Prove That My Former Spouse Is Interfering With My Visitation Time With My Child?
Custodial interference is a huge problem that brings divorced couples back into Family Court all the time. Some of the typical displays of custodial interference include a parent playing games with pickup or drop off times for scheduled visits, not allowing phone calls to or from the other … [Read more...] about How Do I Prove That My Former Spouse Is Interfering With My Visitation Time With My Child?
Can I Request An End To Spousal Maintenance If My Ex Has Moved In With Her Boyfriend?
Yes, if your original maintenance agreement did not specify cohabitation with an unrelated male, you have grounds to ask the court to modify the support maintenance. Where an ex has begun cohabitating with a new partner and is substantially acting as that person’s spouse, courts have terminated … [Read more...] about Can I Request An End To Spousal Maintenance If My Ex Has Moved In With Her Boyfriend?